I am part of a family of six who followed God's call to live on a ship, the Africa Mercy, in order to bring hope and healing to the poor of West Africa. Living here has shaped my character and strengthened my relationship with the LORD. Although my life journey has included excitement, adventure, frustration, monotony, joy, heartache, craziness,mercy, fun, pain, hope, and many other highs and lows, God has always come through for me in the little things and the big things. As I continue serving Jesus I invite you to join me, support me in prayer, and catch up on what is happening in my life from time to time.

Monday, September 30, 2013

Hello.

Hello everyone,

I have not been up to much lately. I'm getting into the swing of things, getting to know people, and learning a little bit more French every day. I just wanted to write this quick blog post to let you know that I'm still here; although some days are rougher than others, I am starting to adjust to and feel more comfortable in this new culture and environment.

Sunday, September 15, 2013

This Weekend...

...I went to a small fair in Lille. It was not very exciting, and everything was expensive. The only money I spent was 2 Euros for a bunch of churros. A lot of the food stands were advertised as American, and I even saw a statue of a giant hot dog wrapped in an American flag.

...I ate a very French meal. For Louise and Flavie's birthdays we had a small dinner party at our house (only four or five hours, not as long as the one I described before). The appetizers were bread with smoked salmon, garlic sausage, dried sausage, and bread with fish eggs. I ate everything but the fish eggs. The main course was salad with foie gras, chicken liver, and smoked dried duck. I tried everything, but I didn't really like the foie gras or chicken liver. The foie gras was very rich and had an almost nutty taste. The chicken liver tasted like chicken, but was more pungent in both taste and smell. I also tried a teeny sip of white wine. It was not too bad, but I'm sure it would be amazing to people who like wine. At least, I was told that it is a very good wine.

...We went to our town's "Fête du Sport." In the morning there was sports competitions, which I did not attend because I wanted to sleep in and get my homework done. In the afternoon, I went with my host family to a parking lot that had bouncy castles set up. I played a game with my host sisters where you are harnessed to elastic cords and you have to run against the cords and place a Velcro triangle as far away from the starting point as you can. Whoever puts their triangle the farthest wins. There was also an activity where everyone put tags with their names and phone numbers on balloons and released them into the air to see where they would end up. At the end of the afternoon there was a raffle, and we won a small poker set. I'm fairly certain that no one in my host family plays poker.

On a side note, French people having cheese and wine is not just a stereotype. So far every lunch or dinner party I have been to has included a discussion about and consumption of wine and cheese.

Monday, September 9, 2013

French Dinner Parties

This weekend I went with my host family to a birthday party for my host mom's father. It was the third or fourth dinner party I have been to here in France, so I thought I could tell you about these French celebrations.

Around 2:00, you arrive and kiss everyone, once on each cheek (actually, it's more like touching cheeks and kissing the air). Then the children eat a quick meal and go outside to play. The adults sit down and talk while having small snacks like nuts, pieces of cheese, and sausage slices. Each person also drinks two glasses of Champaign. After two hours everyone sits down at the table and eats the appetizers. Adults drink two glasses of white wine. Then you talk some more. The main course comes out and you eat. The adults have a glass of red wine. Then there is a break, where you sit and talk or take a walk outside. Next there is cheese and bread. The adults have another glass of red wine. Then there is chocolates and coffee or tea. Finally, there are desserts like strawberry tarts, crème pies, and rhubarb pies with beer for the adults. When you leave around 9:00 or 10:00, you kiss everyone again. All in all, seven hours, five courses, and seven glasses of alcohol.

Two things that are strange for me here in France are the amount of alcohol consumed and the whole kissing thing. I have kissed a lot of strangers and acquaintances now, both male and female. At school, friends kiss each other on the cheek when they meet. It is hilarious to think how my friends at school on the ship would react if I kissed them, but here in France people are offended if you know them and don't kiss them. It is hard for me to adjust to this, but I have to just do it and remember that it is a different culture here.

Friday, September 6, 2013

First Week of School

I am very relieved that it is the weekend! The school days in France are from 8:00 to 4:30 to 5:20, depending on the day. I understand most of my classes here, except French class. Unfortunately, I cannot yet read French novels. The rest of this week was much better than the first day, although I did have a few mishaps such as not being able to find where some classes were. Even though school was not too terrible, I am ready for a rest.

I am sort of beginning to make friends here, but it is hard since I cannot really speak to people or contribute to a conversation. There are some girls that I carpool with that live nearby and a girl in my class that I have been eating lunch with. I am impatient to learn French!

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

First Day of School

I'm not going to lie, today was hard. It started when I walked into the classroom last and everyone else was already sitting down. Then, I only got one student assigned to me because he was the only one who spoke good English.
 
At lunch time I figured out where the cafeteria was, but I wasn't very hungry and didn't have a lunch ticket, so I was going to skip lunch, but a teacher found me and told me that eating lunch was not optional. The food was not good at all.

Several times there was miscommunication or something important that I didn't understand because it was in French. At the end of the day, I had a huge headache from hearing French all day and not understanding 3/4 of it.

On the up side, I met a group of girls that live nearby and are nice. One of them speaks good English. And I survived without any major mental break downs or horrible mistakes. I know that even though it's hard I will be O.K and at the end of the year I will be able to speak French and have a great experience to talk about!

 

Monday, September 2, 2013

My Host Family

A few days ago the prep course finished and everyone took trains to their host families. We were all excited and nervous.

I am living in Tatinghem, a small town in the north of France in the Lille area. I have three host sisters who are 13, 12, and 6. There is also the two parents and a golden retriever.

When my host family picked me up, we went to Nathalie's (my host mom) sisters house for lunch.
Albert, an Australian exchange student, and his host family also came. His host family and mine are good friends, so we see each other whenever there is a family and friends get together.

Yesterday my host dad, the girls, and I went to the beach. We walked on the sand, ate ice cream, found a little sea anemone, and saw the coast of England across the channel.

Today I will start school at La Malassise, a private school that specializes in science and economics. I am nervous, since I don't know much French, but I know I will learn eventually. The school's administrator said that he will assign two students to me who I can ask questions and get help from.

I am having a great time in France so far, and am excited for the rest of the year!